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We are only a few days into the New Year and already I have done a lot of learning and [tag]brainstorming[/tag] to improve not only my business but my life and the children’s life as well. I do not like to talk about this much however; we have a stressful house here with two teens and two preschoolers. So, we end up with a lot of craziness, arguing, fighting and tons of sibling rivalry. So I tend to get [tag]stressed out[/tag] which in turn makes them stressed out.
A good friend of mine heard me asking for help without asking for help last night and we sat down and brainstormed new ways for them to express their energy in more productive ways. We also discussed ways to change the daily routines for myself and the children. We came up with a lot of ideas. This helped so much I actually felt refreshed and had hope for the [tag]family[/tag] something that was missing from me. Probably part of why these things were bothering me as much.
Just as I thought we were done she asked me about me, what was I going to take care of Tamara? Well I didn’t think about it so we started with various things that I could do just for me. I came up with a few ideas and plan on making the changes to get out of the house, sometimes with the children sometimes on my own, but getting out of the house is something that I need to do. This is something else I feel will help change my moods.
I learned something valuable during this chat. I learned that I am not a [tag]perfect mom[/tag] and it is OK. I can only do the best that I can and do what I am capable of doing more then I realize. Most importantly I learned that it is actually good to ask for help and [tag]brainstorm[/tag] things that are going on in your life both the good and the bad. All you need is a friend who is willing to sit with you and help you get these things out in the open.
I truly hope each and every one of you have that friend that you are able bounce ideas off of and your able to be the real you, All too often we as moms put on a face that everything is perfect and we can handle it all. Please don’t be afraid to ask for help you deserve the best and sometimes we need help so we can be our best.
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